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Friday, September 24, 2010
Sometimes i ask myself if i'm putting too much priority in you, thus i expect you to treat me as of the same importance and attitude. other times i ask myself if i'm expecting too much from you as a girlfriend.. i know very well that i'm giving my all in this and i can feel it from the way i deal with things till the way i usually pick my words and how the sentence that comes out of my mouth sounds. if it's a little too harsh or too straightforward and if i noticed i'll immediately change or rephrase my words because i know words can kill the mood very easily. especially when you're with someone special. why do things often take a change when we get what we wanted or a liking for? is it because we feel that we're in control thus all those small little gratitude don't seem to matter anymore? or do we feel that the familiarity between each other is too much to bear thus we do away with those careful, respectful phrasing of words, since we're so used to each other we can talk whatever that comes to our mind? note that there's a thin line between straightforward-ness and respectful - i guess it lies in the attitude. i know i lost a fairly large amount of myself ever since day 1 and i know that it's not a very good thing nor can i be boastful about it. i feel like i've lost my sense of individuality sometimes in wanting too much to be be accepted by the other and "fitting" into his world be it musical sense or other aspects. but i know that it's wrong. because i don't believe in couple merging as one, one should have their own individuality to be special in the relationship for the long run. and sometimes when i talk about all these topics i can't help but to think if you had ever care about such stuffs, will you even bother to think deeply about it? will you? when a problem arises i'm sorry to say but i feel guys should take some responsibility and create a solution(by ASKing if you've upset her by blah blah) rather than asking "what's wrong? " and expect a answer from the ladies. seriously guys buck up. ps: click on it.. some food for thought. http://www.thedailymind.com/how-to/how-to-become-a-better-husband-boyfriend-or-life-partner/ 8:45 PM
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