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Monday, May 31, 2010
The essence of a lasting relationship. Sometimes i ask myself once, maybe twice to hear if the voice inside me has really made her mind and of course this is not the 1st time i'm asking myself such questions, especially on this particular one. "Why?" to me i feel i personally feel that whether or not a relationship can last or not is based on 2 main factors. a couple will most likely to make it to the end IF... .. 1st) their love for each other is so strong that despite whatever obstacles that they are facing and they will do whatever it takes to spend the rest of their lives together. so basically it is about compromising. 2nd) and out of their love for each other they would rather hold on and fight for this relationship to keep it going in times of difficulties when there's a easier route to take. yes. you're right. -- giving up. as for me i think that the latter one is more important not that i think that love is unimportant in a solid relationship but most of the time things based just on feelings is not enough. commitment and the willingness to make it happen is the crux of this whole foundation thing it's the thing that keeps it going when things in the relationship doesn't seems to be the way you thought or wanted it to be. it is one of those few moments when you look at your partner and begin to doubt if whatever that you've done and sacrificed all these while is worth the effort. 2 person getting together is not a easy thing. because it's when 2 individual are fused and living as 1, compromising , giving and taking, learning to change into a better person... etc it's not maths.. it doesn't go 1 + 1 = 2, rather it's 1 + 1 = 1. because end of the day there can only be 1 choice be it in whatever decision one has to make and it has to be agreed by both. right? okay i feel smart suddenly. *grins* So anyway maybe it's pms that's causing me to think so much but end of the day i still stick to my motto.. " there's a 101 million excuses to give up, and only 1 simple reason to hold on " which is easier? giving up or staying on and fight, fighting for what you believe that's worth fighting for? 3:25 PM
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