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Sunday, April 6, 2008
As I was reading todays Sunday Times I chanced upon this article written by sumiko tan. I thought it really made sense while I was reading and trying to digest it at the same time. So I decided to share this. I did edit a little bit hahah. Enjoy!! :) Is physical pain more terrible than mental pain..? If you asked me I would say mental pain. (maybe beause I'm still currently experiencing it) The good thing about physical pain is that, most times it'll go away either throught time or with the help of medication. But mental pain on the other hand is a totally different case there's no medication for the pain to go away. Sigh that's so saddening. It does fade away slowly but unlike a physical pain that has been cured, a mental pain haunts. Just when you think you've gotten over it, something triggers a memory and the pain comes flooding back. Other than death the most common cause of mental pain is yeah, love. More often than not the mental pain that most people carry around is due to relationship woes - the pain of misplaced love, betrayed love, unrequired love, of never being able to attain the happily-ever-after scenario you hope for (which I can't agree more with it), at least not in this lifetime, the pain of waiting, of missing someone so much that you think your heart would break, the pain of trying to forget someone, the pain of wanting more love. I've come to conclude that romantic love is actually one of the most silly reasons to get yourself twisted up in anguish. This form of pain is selfish, self-inclicted and ultimately deserved, we brought it upon ourselves.It's caused by an ego that believes someone else should dance to your tune and if things don't turn out your way, or the way you thought/hoped it might turn out, it's a disaster, mayhem, sorrow, pain and agony. But the truth reality is, love can't be forced. It's either there or it's not. No amount of crying, wishing it would somehow happen and feeling pained will make it happen when it's not meant to be. Accepting it and moving on would be better. Maybe it's really time to move on. I just realized no matter what I do, how helpless I feel it's just not going to improve the situation 1:25 PM
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